As we approach 4 years, we are thinking more and more about what we are going to do in the coming couple years. It's company policy to only have expats out here for 3-5 years...we are getting close to the end, according to policy. But then, there are people that have been out here 10 years or more too. I am not sure I want to be out here another five, particularly if it is here in Chiner. Yeah...after 9 years of our lives spent in GZ...I'm getting pretty sick of it and thoughts of the next stage are creeping into my mind more and more.
Our first choice has always been to move to another country...to experience a new culture all over again. We did that 11 years ago when we first moved to China. It was all so new and different and stressful and enlightening. That experience was frustrating, but enriching...it drew us closer together because we needed each other to get through it all. But, knowing my choice of job, that may not be all that likely...a move home is more likely.
Tai-Tai and I find ourselves discussing more and more about our house and what we would need to do to get back into it. Cars; do we need a new one? Should I start purchasing replacement parts for my Cougar? What about school for expat son? What about a future career for Tai-Tai who has been out of the job market for over 10 years. And, the economy...is it going to tank to the point in which I become expendable (expats are the fastest and biggest line item budget cut for any company). Pretty soon, people aren't going to have the dough to shell out for the products I am helping make. Too many questions to answer...and it just adds to the confusion sometimes.
This tour of duty has been so much better than the first one. I am in a position in which I am thriving...I was meant for this job. Not too many people can say that in their careers. Previously, I was just trying to figure out what the heck I was doing...now I know what needs to be done and I go out and try to make a difference. With some recently added responsibilities on my plate, it seems as though I am needed for at least another year...but then what?
So...its time to start saving...and its time to start spending and planning. We still need a bit of furniture to round out our home. We still want to visit and see places around the world we haven't had a chance to visit and see. We haven't planned on going 'home' for holidays, simply because we want to take advantage of our opportunities to travel and see the world. It's getting close to the point of taking out a checklist and ensuring we have ticked off all the things we have wanted to do/buy/experience.
It hasn't really come up yet...but we are thinking about it more and more. When will it be time to go? The last time we were here, we didn't think about it...and when the time came, we were not ready. We were pushed on to the plane...we had unfinished business to complete. From the moment I moved back to Oregon, I was on the prowl to move back to Asia...I just had to. This time around, we want to be sure we do it on our terms...because we know that when we do move back, it will probably be for good. And we will leave behind nearly 10 years of our lives.
Home is where your hat is...well, this has become our home. As dirty, crowded and confusing as it may be...it is our home.